Monday, February 29, 2016

Day 5


Leap year day, an extra one. How can I use it as a gift? I did get out to walk yesterday. Slow, but walking nonetheless. I know today will be better and I can sprinkle kindness or at least smile more today. It’s senior center duty and I’m looking forward to going. The birthday greeting made me aware of my place there and I intend to honor that place. Cillay’s note will be in the mail this morning. Life in progress.


On Leap Year Day, I suggested that we perform random acts of kindness. Little did I know what would happen. First a confession: I have a problem with the homeless people in my neighborhood. The parade from liquor store to camp sites goes on all the time. Forty ounce breakfasts, followed by forty ounce lunches, followed by two forty ounce dinners plus cigarettes, junk food, and candy. I can attest to that when I clean up my yard. My friend Gene told me that compassion for the homeless would be good for my soul. Now, February 29th: On my morning walk when a homeless guy approaches. I say Good Morning and smile. He turns around and begins to walk with me. “Do you see me?” Sure. “Do you hear me?” Sure. “I think I’m invisible.” No. I see you and hear you. Everybody feels invisible sometimes. “Do you have to pinch yourself?” Maybe, once in a while. He rambles on as we walk, I mutter uh-huh and look his way often enough to let him know I see him and hear him. All the way to the traffic signal where I will turn and he will proceed straight. He says, “Now I don’t feel lonely.”

Sunday, February 28, 2016

Day 4



Rain and wind. My enthusiasm waned yesterday. I did find old movies and provided a lap for four dogs. I hope to do better today in terms of physical energy and motivation. The pile of greetings are on the table right next to the note cards I intend to send. I have missed two Sundays at church and will attend today. I miss church and only miss when I just don’t feel well. The new anti-biotics have not helped much yet.

Saturday, February 27, 2016

Day 3


Good night’s sleep and I’m rarin’ to go. It helps that the moon is shining so the rain has gone. Ordinary morning is sight: watering orchids and brief attention to counters and floors. Then, an open day. It will begin with walking, I’m addicted to getting outside and enjoying my place. There are blossoming trees to stare at, especially the pink ones. Lots of daffodils too. I want to make connections today, possibly with writing notes to friends at a distance.


Friday, February 26, 2016

Day 2



I received so much attention yesterday that I was worn out from smiling. I do truly feel celebrated and now I can move on. Rain is coming later so I’ll get out to walk early. The calendar is blank so I can make of today what I will. Karen’s massage was wonderful, as usual. She gave me a special hand-made oil of rose, bergamot, and ylang ylang. I used it when I went to bed and enjoyed its fragrance all night.

Thursday, February 25, 2016

Day 1



I am 81 years old. Never thought I would be elderly and most of the time I don’t feel my age. Today I’m looking forward to walking, senior center duty and the prize, a massage with Karen Rath. Those are ingredients for a good day. My New Year’s resolutions include amping up my social life. I want more chatty friends for walks, lunch, texting. Just reaching out for the fun of being together. Hand written letters is on the list too.